tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-59758690898111789612024-03-14T02:42:47.809-07:00the making of a womanZoéhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11350641396443503358noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5975869089811178961.post-45235668731682231042011-05-05T14:59:00.000-07:002011-05-06T11:20:07.703-07:00My Fearful Self<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><span style="color: black;">I used to see myself as a fearless girl, the girl who wasn't afraid of anything that could happen to her (only afraid of what could happen to her siblings!). I thought that being good at something would take time and practice (and it does) and if I was having trouble doing it, then I just hadn't done the right amount of practise yet. But I have come to realize that sometimes it wasn’t about needing more practise, it was about being scared of the next level. I would tell myself "I'm not scared of anything that could happen to me, I just need to spend more time at this”. But that wasn't it at all. Sometimes I would hold myself back and let my fear control me.</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">Here is the story of how I have come to realize that:</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">This winter, my whole family went skiing at a resort. It was kind of like a village, but we were right on a mountain. We were there to ski, but I didn’t know how.</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">So the first day me, Noel (9) and Joseph (11) were in lessons all day learning how to ski. The teacher took it slowly. She taught us one thing at a time. We started on little hills, then went to bigger hills. Even though all day we were progressing to bigger hills, the boys kept saying things like "Can't wait ‘til we're on our own tomorrow" or "She's holding us back!". </span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">Of course, all my two brothers talked about the next morning was what trail we were going to conquer first. I realized I wasn't as ambitious as they were. I wasn't sure why, so I just put it out of my head.</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">When we went to go on the ski lift that second day, the guy in charge of the ski lift told me I couldn't go on because my tag wasn't working; I had to go get a new one. As I turned to leave, Joseph and Noel said "Can we go up without you?" I told them that I didn't like the idea of them skiing without someone watching them and I would be back soon.</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">But it took a lot longer than I thought to get a new one.</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">Frustrated with waiting, the two boys decided it wouldn’t do any harm to go up without me. (Typical.)</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">I came back to the ski lift and they were gone. I started worrying. </span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">Were they waiting for me at the top of the hill? </span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">Were they just about to come down the hill? </span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">What if they had decided to go on a different trail? </span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">What if one of them had hurt himself?</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">Were they running around the village looking for me? </span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">And finally: What the heck was I going to do now?</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">I decided that the most likely scenario was that they had either gone down without me a few times and were now waiting for me at the top, or they were on their way down.</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">I decided to go up on the ski lift and watch for them below on the hill. If I saw them, I would call to them and make them wait for me.</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">I kept telling myself "I'm not scared of this hill! I'm only anxious because something could have happened to my brothers!" Well I went up the hill on the ski lift and watched for them, but couldn’t find them anywhere. (Little did I know I was looking at the wrong trail!) </span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">When I got to the top and got off the lift, I was more scared then ever. "Where are they? What do I do now?" I thought to myself.</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">I wanted to stay up there and wait for them to find me, but by this time I knew that they would be looking for me at the bottom. I had to go down. Alone. Without anyone. So very slowly I skied (or really, slid) down the hill, not thinking to make nice turns or even keep my skis nicely side by side for that matter. I just kept repeating under my breath “Got to get down, got to get down.”</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">I fell. I rolled down part of the hill. I got covered in snow. I lost a ski.</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">When I finally stopped rolling, I took off my second ski (so I could run back up the hill to where my first ski was and collect my other one). I tried to put it on but I was in the middle of a steep section and kept sliding. I trudged down the steep section to a flatter area so I could get it on. By then I had a lot of snow on my boots and my silly skis, so it took me a few tries to get the snow off of everything so that I could click in. It took a long time. I was already hot and tired.</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">They say that insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, expecting a different result. I was temporarily insane.</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">So in no time, there I was again, a big ball of fear rolling down the hill. This time both skis fell off. People were starting to look at me like: "Lady, if you can't ski then what are you doing here?"</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">I would just look back at them like: "I don't know. I must be crazy."</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">“I didn't know the trail was so hard! Where were those monkey-brothers of mine? Were they starting to worry about ME? I was starting to worry about ME!”</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">I got back my skis and tried to put them back on. </span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">Of course, they were covered in snow, and I was in the middle of yet another steep section. I was tired. I didn't want to have to go through that mess I had to go through before to get my skis on. Worst of all, I didn't know how many more times I was going to fall. And lose my skis. And have to go get them. And have to put them back on. And have to try to ski another steep section. Just to fall again.</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">Now I knew I was scared. I realized that I had been scared all day. And maybe even starting the day before. I was scared of skiing down big hills. I was scared of going fast. I was scared that if I went downhill and started going fast, then I wouldn’t be able to stay in control and that I would have a bad bad fall and get really hurt. I was scared to die on that hill. Alone.</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">I really didn't want to be there anymore.</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">I started thinking about walking all the way down the hill, but knew that it would take hours to get down.</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">There had to be a better way.</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">Then I remembered everything I had been hearing about control, not only the day before in ski lessons, but everything I had been taught in figure skating as well. Was the reason I was messing up because I had no control? </span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">I knew how to be in control; I had been figure skating for so long. And I had had some control the day before, in lessons.</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">I realized that I was giving all of my focus to my fear, and not really focusing on skiing well. Maybe I could overcome my fear and focus on control and form.</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">Deep down, I wanted to be able to ski. I wanted to go find Joseph and Noel. I decided that I would try again but, this time try smarter. </span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">So I did put thoses skis back on. I pushed off down the hill, careful to make every twist and turn perfectly (or somewhat perfectly). I started gaining speed and having a bit of trouble, but I was on my way down and determined to reach the glorious bottom.</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">And that's how I finally got down.</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">I found my brothers who were waiting for me and told them not to leave like that again. </span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">They told me that they had gone down the hill a few times then decided to wait for me, at the bottom. By then I was already lining up for the ski lift. Ready to try again. Ready to go fast. Downhill. Better. Ready to push past my fear, remember my lessons, and make it to the next level. (Preferably better than my brothers.)</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">Now I have a new way of learning. I call it "Best effort even when scared to bits".</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">This means that whether I’m scared or not, I’m going to try to keep my cool and try my hardest in everything.</span><br />
<span style="color: black;">And it works! Not only did I have a great time skiing for the rest of the trip, I just passed the next figure skating test!</span><br />
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<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="http://s891.photobucket.com/albums/ac112/LadyGwenea/?action=view&current=angelessiggie.jpg" target="_blank"><img alt="Photobucket" border="0" src="http://i891.photobucket.com/albums/ac112/LadyGwenea/angelessiggie.jpg" /></a></div>Zoéhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11350641396443503358noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5975869089811178961.post-32828687695281660982011-03-06T18:12:00.000-08:002011-05-05T14:03:15.209-07:00Why I love Gerard #2<div style="text-align: justify;">This is a shorter story. But it's cute and I'm in it.<br />
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<strong>The pillow thief</strong></div><div style="text-align: justify;"></div>The boys' bedroom is on the main floor (Joseph, Noel, and Gerard) , and the girls' bedroom (for Marie and I) is upstairs. <br />
I guess it's hard for Gerard to keep his bed warm because he's so small. Sometimes at night he likes to go find someone in a warm bed to snuggle up with. Usually, he sneaks into mom's bed, but sometimes I'm "the lucky one".<br />
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One night, long after I had gone to bed, I woke up to find my pillow was missing. Without opening my eyes, I felt around for it. I found it, grabbed it and put it back under my head. But just as I did, I heard a little angry voice shout "Hey!!!" My eyes flashed open and I saw Gerard (in my bed!) glaring at me, because I had dared to take my own pillow.<br />
Totally flustered, I said "Gerard, WHAT are you doing in my bed?" He replied in a very quiet and very sweet, sympathy-attracting voice "it's so cozy here.... and warm..... and nice...."<br />
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I let him stay, the little monkey. I'm such a sucker.<br />
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Thanks to <a href="http://faithfullyfeminine.blogspot.com/">Gwenea </a>and <span class="fn"><a href="http://www.smallcatholic.blogspot.com/">Milisande</a> and <a href="http://shilah-mylife.blogspot.com/">Ara</a> </span>Zoéhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11350641396443503358noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5975869089811178961.post-48010353767245874192011-01-23T13:23:00.000-08:002011-05-05T20:25:19.800-07:00Why I love Gerard #1<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">Welcome to the first "Why I love Gerard" post, where I tell stories about my lovable yet troublesome 3 year-old little brother!</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">This post is called: </span></div><div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; text-align: center;"><strong><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">A Time-Out in the Middle of M</span><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">ass</span></strong><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> </span><br />
<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">My 11 year-old brother Joseph had an out-of-town hockey tournament. My Dad (who takes hockey very seriously) offered to take him, and he decided to take Gerard with him to give Mom a break for the weekend. Gerard had a blast. He swam in the pool at the hotel, ate pizza with the team, and won over <u>all</u> the moms in the stands with his considerable charms. He even took a nap on the lap of one of the moms during a game. When we go to Joseph's local games now, everyone stops to talk with Gerard. He's like the mayor.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">Anyhow, back to the out-of-town tournament story. After the Sunday morning game, they jumped in the truck and headed over to the local Catholic Church, where Mass was just underway. They sat in the very last pew because they were late. The gifts of wine and bread were on a table right behind the last pew, waiting for the time where they would be brought to the altar. While Dad and Joesph were listening to the homily, Gerard leaned over the back of the pew and picked up the big host - the one that the priest usually breaks during the Eucharistic Prayers. Gerard beat him to it.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">He wasn't trying to be bad. He was just trying to be a priest. He wanted to know what it felt like to snap the host in two, and I think he was quite satisfied with the whole experience right up until the point where the sound of the 'snap' made Joseph turn his head. Joseph looked at Gerard, looked at the host, and then tugged on Dad's sleeve. "Dad," he whispered "I think we have a problem." </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">And that's how Gerard ended up in a time-out in the middle of Mass.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">In case you were wondering, when they did bring the gifts up to the altar, the priest just used one of the smaller hosts to say the Eucharistic Prayers. He didn't miss a beat. Maybe Gerard wasn't the first kid in the last row to end up in a time-out in the middle of Mass.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman','serif'; font-size: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman';"> I love Gerard!</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><br />
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I'm working on getting along with my little brother.<br />
We used to get along so well when we were little. We played together every day and had so much fun!<br />
But now we're almost always fighting.<br />
My little brother Joseph is about 11 and loves to get under my skin. And I let him.<br />
<span style="color: black;">Here's how that happens:</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">First he'll disobey me or do something that upsets me - just to upset me, I swear. Sometimes it's me just being in a bad mood. Or something is bothering me and I'm grumpy because of it. </span><br />
<span style="color: black;">But whatever starts it, when I get mad he acts like I'm the grumpy witch and laughs at me.</span><br />
<span style="color: black;">So then I try to ignore him, hoping he will just go away. He never does.</span><br />
Instead, we have this discussion:<br />
Little Brother: “Oh, she's mad now!"<img height="277px" id="il_fi" sb_id="ms__id538" src="http://wwwdelivery.superstock.com/WI/223/255/PreviewComp/SuperStock_255-3868.jpg" style="padding-bottom: 8px; padding-right: 8px; padding-top: 8px;" width="240px" /><br />
Big Sister: "Just leave me alone!"<br />
Little Brother :"Oh she's mad! She’s such a grumpy old witch!"<br />
<span style="color: black;">Big Sister: "MOM, Joseph's bothering me" </span><br />
<span style="color: black;">Little Brother: "Oh yah, now it's my fault"</span><br />
<span style="color: black;">Big Sister: "Don't lie! You know you were trying to upset me!"</span><br />
<span style="color: black;">Mom: “Joseph be nice to your sister. Angele don't get upset so easily." </span><br />
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Then I'll think: <br />
"He started it!" "It's his fault!" " I wasn't mad until <em>he made me mad</em>!"<br />
Then I feel sad. And mad.<br />
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Why does Joseph like bothering me so much? Where's the love?<br />
I think it's a puberty thing. Him, not me. (I can tell Joseph is going through puberty because he's growing alot, he's getting a mustache, and he has a lot of extra energy). Bothering me must be his way of using his extra energy. <br />
Or maybe he bothers me for entertainment, because I get so upset;<br />
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<em><span style="color: #38761d;">"I don't know about girls. </span></em><br />
<em><span style="color: #38761d;">But for boys, they find some pleasure in upsetting their siblings" - Fr. Dave.</span></em><br />
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<span style="color: black;">Still, my mom's right too. I get upset really easily. (In my defense: I don't get upset when it's anybody else, only Joseph.)</span><br />
<span style="color: black;">Anyway, I shouldn't let him bother me. I can't control what he does, but I can control my reaction. So, no matter how much he acts like a little brat with a moustache and tries to get me upset, I will remain calm and poised. Calm. And poised. At least most of the time.</span><br />
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<span style="color: black; font-family: 'Calibri','sans-serif'; font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">I love my little brother and I don't like being mad at him. </span></span></span><span style="color: black; font-family: 'Calibri','sans-serif'; font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">Me and him have been buddies since we were little. Sometimes he is a great guy. I want to like having him around and I want him to like having me around</span>.</span> Heaven help us, I'll try. </span><a href="http://img1.eyefetch.com/p/b3/1186867-7e07b6d5-b21c-4ea5-b46c-63b1112dd2be.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="cssfloat: right; margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="130px" px="true" src="http://img1.eyefetch.com/p/b3/1186867-7e07b6d5-b21c-4ea5-b46c-63b1112dd2be.jpg" width="200px" /></a></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
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</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">If you have something to say about this post or have any ideas of what I can blog about next, please tell me!<br />
God Bless,<br />
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</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="color: black;"></span></div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"></div>Zoéhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11350641396443503358noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5975869089811178961.post-89447283006882650912010-11-06T09:51:00.000-07:002011-05-05T20:28:43.596-07:00Homeschooling vs Public Schooling<span style="background-color: #d5a6bd;"><u>This is comment from my grandmother on what to blog about:</u></span><br />
<span style="background-color: #d5a6bd;"> -You could talk about homeschooling versus public school. It may help a lot of mothers with this decision to homeschool or not.</span> Love- A.Winifred, New England.<br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">Thank you grandmother <3</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">So here it is....</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><span style="color: black;"><strong><em>Homeshooling vs public schooling </em></strong></span></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="http://www.christianlogic.com/images/uploads/christianlogic_image_homeschoolers_hiding_something_highres.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; cssfloat: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="143px" px="true" src="http://www.christianlogic.com/images/uploads/christianlogic_image_homeschoolers_hiding_something_highres.gif" width="200px" /></a></div> I think homeschooling is a beautiful way to learn and I'm glad I am being homeschooled. Some people would argue with me. Here are their common arguments and my answers to those arguments: <br />
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<strong>Argument: </strong><br />
Students should be taught by a certified teacher.<br />
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<em><strong>Me: </strong></em><br />
<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">As a homeschooler, I can say that I feel just as educated as most girls my age, if not more so. My curriculum, like in a public school, is written by specialists and experts. For the most part, I read the books and teach myself. If I have any trouble with the instructions from the books, my mother will go over it with me. We also discuss what I am learning about as we go about our day, and my mom gives me writing assignments that we go over (and over, and over) until she is happy with it. I take my Science course online with a certified teacher, which is also fun. We do have a representative from the School Board come and check on us twice a year, and she is great for giving us suggestions on learning more effectively and letting us know about all the resources that are available to us. I believe that I learn my lessons just as well as most public students, if not better.</div></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><strong>Argument:</strong></div></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"> A homeschooler can't make friends when they're always at home.</div></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><em><strong> </strong></em></div></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><em><strong> </strong></em><em><strong> Me: </strong></em>I may not make tons of friends, but I don't need tons of friends. I only need friends who are worth being friends with, and I think that I have made those kind of friends. And just to top it off, I'm not always home. I go figure skating. I play on a soccer team. My family is very social with other (homeschooling and non-homeschooling) families. I go to places where I can make valuable friends like Catholic camps and retreats. I volunteer in my community. I'm out of the house as much as I want to be. </div></div></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><strong>Argument:</strong></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"> Homeschoolers are too sheltered and will have a hard time going out into the "real world" from lack of "life experience".</div><br />
<em><strong>Me:</strong></em><br />
Because I am responsible for my own schedule, I have developed alot of self-discipline, which is a good experience. I also spend my time with people of all ages, not just all my age, which I think is more like the "real world". I have run into some bullies and peer pressure in my sports and activities, but I find it not that hard to deal with because I can choose to walk away, which I think is also more like the "real world". I have had the time and room to grow strong in who I am.<br />
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<strong>Argument:</strong> <br />
Homeschoolers wouldn't be able to get into a good university because they don't have the proper papers.<br />
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<strong><em>Me:</em></strong><br />
Homeschoolers have been accepted into all of the best schools, because they tend to be hard workers who have a lot to offer.<br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">IN CONCLUSION:</span><br />
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Homeschooling isn't for everyone, nor is it the only way, but if it's for you that's great!<br />
Homeschooling is a valid way to school your children.<br />
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Here's a video that'll make you smile, because it's good to laugh at ourselves sometimes:<br />
<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VM6uqj0_jQc">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VM6uqj0_jQc</a><br />
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If you have something to say about this post or have any ideas of what I can blog about next please tell me!<br />
God Bless,<br />
<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #dd3364; font-family: 'Edwardian Script ITC'; font-size: 22pt; line-height: 115%;">A</span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #e14b76; font-family: 'Edwardian Script ITC'; font-size: 22pt; line-height: 115%;">ng</span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #df4194; font-family: 'Edwardian Script ITC'; font-size: 22pt; line-height: 115%;">e</span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #da0053; font-family: 'Edwardian Script ITC'; font-size: 22pt; line-height: 115%;">l</span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #d63a5b; font-family: 'Edwardian Script ITC'; font-size: 22pt; line-height: 115%;">e</span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #e03095; font-family: 'Fiolex Girls','sans-serif'; font-size: 22pt; line-height: 115%;"></span></b>Zoéhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11350641396443503358noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5975869089811178961.post-38596190630074038152010-10-11T13:57:00.000-07:002011-05-05T13:58:02.744-07:00Five thingsToday is Thanksgiving.<br />
Because Thanksgiving is about being thankful, I've been thinking of all the things I'm thankful for. Doing that made me realize I love my life.<br />
God has given me so much, but sometimes I can be negative and get down on life.<br />
I will think to myself: <br />
<span style="color: #4c1130;"><strong>This is all wrong!</strong></span> <br />
or<span style="color: #4c1130;"> </span><br />
<span style="color: #4c1130;"><strong>Life's not fair!</strong></span> <br />
or <br />
<span style="color: #4c1130;"><strong>Why me?</strong></span><br />
When I calm down and get over feeling like that, I ask myself: <em><span style="color: #a64d79;">How could you ever think like that? </span></em><br />
<span style="color: #a64d79;"><span style="color: black;">I say to myself:</span><em> This is how you should think:</em></span><br />
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<span style="color: #a64d79;"><em>God's will be done.</em></span><br />
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<span style="color: #a64d79;"><span style="color: #c27ba0;"> L</span><em>ife's not always fair, but it could be worse.</em></span><br />
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<em>I'm God's servant; I'll deal with anything he wants me to.</em><br />
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<span style="color: black;">In short what I'm saying to myself is:</span><em> <strong>Angele be grateful already! Start looking at the good, not the bad. Godlly</strong> <strong>women are grateful. You have lots and lots of things to be grateful for. You, Angele, need to be enlightened .</strong></em><br />
<span style="color: black;">I hate it when I give myself a guilt trip, but it's true. I can look at the bad before the good and that's just selfish and not what a godly woman would do.</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">Here's how I'll be enlightened:</span><br />
<span style="color: black;">There is a monastery in the East that requires the monks to begin each day by thinking of five things they are grateful for. It's a good way to keep perspective. "Gratitude will not allow itself to share a space with any other negative feeling." (Fr.Meletios)</span><br />
<span style="color: black;">I'm going to do like the monks:</span><br />
<span style="color: black;">Every day I'll say five things about what I'm thankful for (trying to think of new things each time).</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">Here is my list for today:</span></span><br />
<ul><li><span style="color: black;">That my big brother came back home for Thanksgiving.</span></li>
<li><span style="color: black;">That I have a blog.</span></li>
<li><span style="color: black;">That my mom's a good cook.</span></li>
<li><span style="color: black;">That God will always forgive me for being selfish.</span></li>
<li><span style="color: black;">That I have a warm home on a cold day like today.</span></li>
</ul><span style="color: black;">Here's a quote my mom tought me:</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">Before enlightenment:</span><br />
<span style="color: #134f5c;">Oh, the <strong>sorrow</strong>... chop wood, carry water.</span><br />
<span style="color: black;">After enlightenment:</span><br />
<span style="color: orange;">Oh, the<strong> joy</strong>... chop wood, carry water.</span><br />
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Georgia; font-size: x-small;">I like that quote because it's a nice reminder to stay joyful, embrace life and have an attitude of gratitude for all that God has given me.</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">Hope you liked this post!</span><br />
<span style="color: black;">If you have somthing to say about this post or have any ideas of what I can blog about next please tell me!</span><br />
<span style="color: black;">God bless,</span><br />
<span style="color: black;"> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #943634; font-family: 'Edwardian Script ITC'; font-size: 18pt; line-height: 115%; mso-themecolor: accent2; mso-themeshade: 191;">Angele</span></i></b></span>Zoéhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11350641396443503358noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5975869089811178961.post-91674638882693914072010-10-03T12:00:00.000-07:002011-05-05T13:59:27.591-07:00"In the world" yet "not of the world"<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt; text-indent: 36pt;"><span style="color: black; font-family: 'Arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; mso-themecolor: text1;"></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><em></em></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt; text-indent: 36pt;"><span style="color: black; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; mso-themecolor: text1;"><em>I've been reading about St. Kathine Drexel as some of my school work. I wrote a small report from a question I was asked after reading about St. Katherine's life. The question was: How did the Drexal famliy stay "in the world" yet remain "not of the world"? Here's my answer:</em></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">There are many evils, like greed, anger, selfishness, laziness, jealousy and more that can overwhelm the good in a person, if that person allows.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>St. Katherine Drexel and her family didn’t let the good in them be destroyed. By staying focused on God with lots of prayer and charity, the Drexel’s were “in the world” yet remained “not of the world”.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt; text-indent: 36pt;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; mso-themecolor: text1;">Francis Drexel (the father of St. Katherine Drexel and the rest of the Drexel family) gave a strong example of prayer and its importance and his wife Emma Drexel (the mother) gave a strong example of charity and how to put it into action. With these lessons, St. Katharine Drexel went on to build schools and funded them for Native Americans and people of color.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt; text-indent: 36pt;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; mso-themecolor: text1;">Francis Drexel took prayer very seriously and kept his family focused in prayer.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He made sure that every evening was set aside for prayer, no matter how busy they were.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>After work, Francis Drexel would go into solitude to pray for an hour each day. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>His family knew not to bother him.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt; text-indent: 36pt;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; mso-themecolor: text1;">Francis Drexel’s wife Emma Drexel was just as determined to keep the family “in the world” yet remaining “not of the world”.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Emma Drexel believed in putting her faith into action. She also believed that the wealthy should help the poor, and the Drexel family was very wealthy. She ran an agency of her own three days a week; she found jobs for people, befriended the sick and supported the destitute.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt; text-indent: 36pt;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; mso-themecolor: text1;">With all this, it’s no surprise that Katherine Drexel became St. Katharine Drexel.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>St. Katherine Drexel learned from the main virtues of her parents: prayer and charity. With charity they conquered greed, selfishness and even laziness, and there is no evil that prayer cannot conquer. </span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; mso-themecolor: text1;">Emma Drexel died in Febuary of 1883. Shortly after, Francis Drexel also died, in the year 1885. Although the Drexel parents died early and left their children early, their lessons and example did not. Because of this,</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; mso-themecolor: text1;"> all of the Drexel children remaind “in the world’ yet “not of the world” until the end of their days. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><em>And as for me, I've decided to try this myself.</em></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><em> I already say my prayers, but I would like to begin praying more often for specific intentions. I believe that I can really help by praying for:</em></span></div><ul><li><br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><em>my famliy.</em></span></div></li>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><em><span style="font-family: Georgia;">my friends.</span></em></div></li>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><em><span style="font-family: Georgia;">the end of abortion, that it comes <u>SOON.</u></span></em></div></li>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><em><span style="font-family: Georgia;">fallen-away Catholics, that they come back to the Church.</span></em></div></li>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><em><span style="font-family: Georgia;">those who have no one to pray for them.</span></em></div></li>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><em><span style="font-family: Georgia;">My "Mr. Right" (whoever he may be).</span></em></div></li>
</ul><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><em><span style="font-family: Georgia;">That's prayer, and as for charity, I'm also working on finding places to volunteer. (I think the nursing home in our neighbourhood needs help getting the residents to Mass.) I'll let you know.</span></em></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><em><span style="font-family: Georgia;">Hope you liked this post!</span></em></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><em><span style="font-family: Georgia;">If you have anything to say or know something else I can blog about or maybe have ideas for my "things to pray for" list or what I should volunteer for, tell me! Address it to: Angele.</span></em></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><em><span style="font-family: Georgia;">God Bless, </span></em></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><em><span style="font-family: Georgia;"> </span></em><em><span style="font-family: Georgia;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #943634; font-family: 'Edwardian Script ITC'; line-height: 115%; mso-themecolor: accent2; mso-themeshade: 191;"><span style="font-size: x-large;">Angele</span></span></i></b></span></em><br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><em><span style="font-family: Georgia;"></span></em> PS:<em><span style="font-family: Georgia;"> If you wont to learn more about St. Kathine Drexel, here's a link :</span></em><span style="color: black; font-family: 'Arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; mso-themecolor: text1;"> <a href="http://www.vatican.va/news_services/liturgy/saints/ns_lit_doc_20001001_katharine-drexel_en.html">http://www.vatican.va/news_services/liturgy/saints/ns_lit_doc_20001001_katharine-drexel_en.html</a>.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"><br />
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-but not all aches and pains.<br />
For example:<br />
People do things that drive you crazy just to drive you crazy;<br />
or <br />
Something happens that "ruins" one of your plans;<br />
or <br />
You have to repeat yourself over and over again to get someone to listen.<br />
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Those are real aches and pains!<br />
And herbs and salts can't help you with them.<br />
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Say you don't get a lot of sleep one night. You're already short on patience and something happens that irritates you. Next thing you know you're shouting. <br />
By the time you go to bed, you've calmed down.<br />
If you're anything like me, you'll feel awful. You'll wish you hadn't started shouting. You'll feel sorry that you hurt someone with your shouting. You'll start thinking how awful you must have looked when you were shouting. Thinking of that will make you feel sick. F<u>eeling like that stinks.</u><br />
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<em>Shouting is really hard not to do. When I get mad or upset I want to yell and shout.</em><i><br />
<em>But when you think of how awful shouting at someone looks, and how awful you are making that person feel, it really gets to you.</em><br />
<em>So that's why today I'm writing about shouting.</em></i><br />
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Today I was going to wear this <strong><span style="color: #ea9999;">pink</span></strong> sweater I love. But when I was about to put it on, I saw a <strong><span style="color: #274e13;">green</span></strong><span style="color: #6aa84f;"><span style="color: black;"> stain</span> </span><span style="color: black;">on it. I looked a bit more and I saw more </span><strong><span style="color: #274e13;">green</span></strong><span style="color: black;">! The </span><strong><span style="color: #274e13;">green</span></strong><span style="color: black;"> was on the sleeves and on the back; i</span><span style="color: black;">t looked awful! </span><span style="color: black;"> Something had gone wrong in the wash. It was beyond saving, <span style="color: black;">so into the trash it went!</span></span><br />
I really like that sweater and I was really mad! A few moments later, I was shouting at my brother. When I calmed down, I had to apologize. All for a sweater.<br />
When is it worth it to shout?<br />
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Is it ever okay to shout?<br />
I thought a bit about those questions. Here's what I got:<br />
It's never really a good idea to shout; shouting doesn't help! And really it makes things worse. <br />
Sometimes people will understand why you're shouting and won't blame you, but still shouting doesn't help. <br />
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So instead of shouting, when I feel upset, overwhelmed, disappointed or just in a bad mood, I'm going to make the sign of the cross. It reminds me that God has my back and everything's going to be fine.<br />
Plus I've tested it and <strong><u>it works!</u></strong><br />
<span style="color: black;">Hope you liked this post!</span><br />
<span style="color: black;">If you have any ideas of what I can blog about or have something to say about what I just blogged about, please tell me!</span><br />
<span style="color: black;">God Bless,</span><br />
<span style="color: black;"> </span><span style="color: black; font-size: 24pt;"> </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="color: #943634; font-family: 'Edwardian Script ITC'; font-size: 24pt; mso-themecolor: accent2; mso-themeshade: 191;">Angele</span></i></b>Zoéhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11350641396443503358noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5975869089811178961.post-82856422206462027992010-09-12T10:50:00.000-07:002011-05-05T13:58:48.781-07:00WorkWhen you're told to work, right when you were going to go do something else that you love, does it make you feel:<br />
1. mad<br />
2. happy<br />
3. tired<br />
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<span style="background-color: yellow;"><span style="background-color: white;">If you picked 1 then you're a lot like me. </span></span><br />
<span style="background-color: yellow;"><span style="background-color: white;">If you said 2 then YOU ROCK and I wish I was more like you!.</span></span><br />
<span style="background-color: yellow;"><span style="background-color: white;">If you said 3 then I can so understand!.</span></span><br />
<span style="background-color: yellow;"><span style="background-color: white;">If you said 1 and 3 then when it comes to unwanted work, you're just like me.</span></span><br />
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When I want to go blog, play, read or just sit down and then I'm told to go do some chore I can get pretty upset.<br />
If you read my profile, you'll know that's the last thing I want. So I've decided that this is something I really need to work on.<br />
It's something that's in my way to becoming a<span style="color: black;"> <em>godly women.</em></span><br />
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So more about work: in my house, each of the children have their own chores but my big brother is gone away to school and that means he can't do his chores. So we had to split up all the work, which means I just got a lot more work.<br />
Now just thinking of what this school year will look like all I think is<em> oh goodbye sweet Summer days when i had time to enjoy myself</em> because between school and work I'm going to have little time to myself.<br />
But thinking "<em>oh goodbye sweet Summer days</em> etc." is not what a godly women would do, so I have to stop.<br />
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So here's how I'm going to do just that!,<br />
When you do some kind of work out of your own-free-will to please someone, it makes you feel really good right? Well it's the same with me!.<br />
So instead of letting mom remind me what to do or tell me what to do, I'm going to do it without being told. That way, I get 3 benefits:<br />
1. Work will get in my way a lot less<br />
2. I'll feel really good inside<br />
3. I'll earn more in heaven<br />
and that's a lot better than getting all upset!<br />
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And I also asked a priest about it he said,<br />
<em><strong><u><span style="color: #38761d;">"you can always tell your mom how you feel, but keep in mind that Jesus gave everything for us so we should try to give it all to others".</span></u></strong></em><br />
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<span style="color: black;">Hope you liked this post!</span><br />
If you have any ideas of what I can blog about or have something to say about what I just blogged about, please tell me!<br />
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God Bless,<br />
AngeleZoéhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11350641396443503358noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5975869089811178961.post-81440161328694701272010-09-01T12:06:00.000-07:002011-05-05T13:58:48.781-07:00How my blog works<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Hi again!</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">So the way my blog works is like this:</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Every week I put a new post up and each post has a title about something I find to be in my way to becoming a Godly woman. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">For example:</span><br />
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<b><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: large;">shouting</span></b><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Shouting is really hard not to do. When I get mad <span style="background-color: white;">or</span> upset I want to yell and shout.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">But when you think of how awful shouting at someone looks, it really gets to you.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">So that's why today I'm writing about shouting.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">I'm also going to blog about books I think are good for teenage girls to read and other things. If you have any ideas about something I should blog about, then please comment and tell me!.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">God bless,</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"> Angele</span>Zoéhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11350641396443503358noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5975869089811178961.post-91514067285108570122010-08-31T12:16:00.000-07:002010-09-12T11:18:01.049-07:00Hello!I'm new to blogging. My friend <a href="http://www.faithfullyfeminine.blogspot.com/">Gwenea</a> is showing me how to do this blog thing, so please be patient as I learn the ins and outs of blogging!Zoéhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11350641396443503358noreply@blogger.com2